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What Do Men Really Want?
Actually, it’s pretty simple, but most women have the hardest time understanding men. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, “If you would just trust me?”

Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes.
It begins at birth when little boys are given a distinct physical advantage over little girls by having higher levels of testosterone. With testosterone comes the physical strength to defend themselves from danger or run away from a threat.

Most little girls don’t have that ability. They don’t have the strength to defend themselves in a physical fight when they feel threatened.

If a boy trusts someone who in turn hurts him, he can always defend himself physically (or try to). Little girls don’t have that physical resource of power. Since a person can only trust from a position of strength, those same little girls will grow up into women who naturally have a more difficult time “trusting” when they feel vulnerable.

So men, when you ask the woman of your choice to simply “trust you,” it’s not that she can’t, it’s just that she’s more vulnerable than you are. If you want her to trust you, she needs something that will help her develop that trust.

Perhaps even a tool or gesture that she can “count on” until her trust in you is established. Thankfully this tool already exists and is known by every woman. What cultivates trust in a woman is a man who consistently keeps his word. To her, making a promise is meaningless if there is no follow-through.

A woman needs to SEE her man fulfill his promises – not just hear his pledge without action.

Allow me to illustrate. Imagine someone told you that I was the meanest person they had ever met. For months, all you heard was how terrible I treated my family and friends.

Then one day you meet me, and during the course of our meeting, you begin to notice that I don’t seem to be as horrible as you have been led to believe. I actually appear to be rather pleasant.

Would you change your entire opinion about me from just one visit? Probably not! However, if you saw me respond consistently with kindness and humility over a period of several weeks, your opinion of me would begin to change.

A paradox has just been established. The kindness you have seen in me for the last few weeks does not match what you have heard about me. All the rumors of how mean I am begin to fade into darkness because of my consistent actions.

Over time, what you see will replace most, if not all, of your concerns about my character.

Men, when the woman you love sees your words lining up with your actions, trust will naturally follow. When you don’t keep your word, it causes your wife or girlfriend to become fearful. From her perspective, she has entrusted you with her heart and WANTS to trust you. She simply needs you to help her trust so she can give you what you want.


Have You Ever Thought About Working Online?


Sandra Chandler never thought she would have a job working home-based until one day she filled out a simple form online. Before she knew it, she discovered a simple way to earn money in her spare time...
A friend told me about Sandra’s experience last month and so I decided to feature her story in our local business report. She told me her amazing story. "I actually make about $12,000-$15,000 a month using the internet. At first it was a great way to supplement our income in my spare time. Now I earn even more money than my previous job! Which is amazing considering I only work about 15-20 hours a week from home.
Working online has been a financial windfall for Sandra and her husband who worked long hours at a local manufacturing company to provide for their family. "I work hard and always look for ways to save or make more money, so that we can give our children the opportunities that we never had when we were young."
I asked her about how she started her remarkable journey. "I was on the Internet one day, and read that a large restaurant chain was asking for people’s opinions on their new hamburger. We had eaten there the previous night, so I spent less than 2 minutes telling them what I liked about it. They thanked me for my feedback and gave me $75! I was amazed that these international companies were willing to pay me so much for my opinion! I was so excited at how simple it was, and started to research ways to do more surveys like that. After more investigation I found a company that helped all these international companies do market research for their products. After I signed up for their money making programs, I was making over $15,000 a month. It's really simple, I am not a computer whiz, but I can use the internet. Every day they send me a list of surveys and I just pick which ones I want to do. I don't even have to sell anything and nobody has to buy anything. It feels great that they value my opinion on popular and famous brands and companies."

For those of you that have seen the internet sites that promise you can make millions of dollars online Sandra warns that this is not the promise being made here and that most of those sites are false representations of earnings you can make. “We never tell anyone they'll make millions of dollars, in fact I think this is the ONLY online system that says you probably WON'T make millions, but you can generate a legitimate income from home like I do that replaced my full time job.”

Quickly, Sandra Chandler was able to use this simple method by signing up with the money making programs here to earn more money in her spare time from the comfort of her home.